Asshole's in Business!!!!!

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

Asshole's in Business!!!!!

Plush · Make believe Slutty Zombie/Official TOP Drama Queen

I will say it again...... MY god, even if it was the case. He's not stickin his dick in the hard drive. Whatever happened to..."you can look, but don't touch"?

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

(rant back on)

Woman calls back...still in tears.....called her husband and tried to explain and apologize to him, he hangs up. Woman calls ACSWB "tech" guy and tells him what I told her and asked him if it was plauseable....he agrees it is plauseable, but he still believes the man was cheating. Stupid woman asks asshole wanna-be tech guy if he would tell her husband the possibility that he was wrong in his assumptions and why....asshole wanna-be tech guy says "no" and laughs....says he isn't a marriage counselor and then hangs up.

Now stupid woman is crying on the phone to me....wants me to tell her husband the possibility that the asshole wanna-be tech was wrong.....WTF????? The stupid woman was just as wrong for believing and jumping to the worst possible scenario without first getting ALL the facts!!!!! Granted, I didn't laugh at her, but I did explain to her that I really didn't see how it would help and that maybe she just needed to let her husband cool down and try approaching him again later.....She said "OK" between her sobbs.....GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Good grief!!!!! Just another fun-filled fucking day in Ashcan Ohio!!!!!

(rant off.....again)

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

Plush wrote:

I will say it again...... MY god, even if it was the case. He's not stickin his dick in the hard drive. Whatever happened to..."you can look, but don't touch"?

Well, apparently this "tech" told her that he downloaded the pictures and profiles and was probabley calling them while she was at work.....WTF?????.....I download shit from a few sites that have personal adds on both sides of the page and they casche the images and profile links in my temporary internet folders when ever I go there to download!!!!???!!!! That doesn't prove he visited the page or called anyone??!!!!! And it takes a hell of a lot longer than 25 minutes to tear into a person's harddrive!!! Perfect case of "Dee" to the third power!

Easy Eman · Mr. Cool

Plush wrote:

I will say it again...... MY god, even if it was the case. He's not stickin his dick in the hard drive. Whatever happened to..."you can look, but don't touch"?

Yep, Just cause Iam on a fuckin diet doesnt mean I cant look at a menu...

Well'cept for Styx maybe if she was my main entree`. I wouildnt need to look at a menu.

Easy Eman · Mr. Cool

Ok to add. HOW CAN I DELETE MY TEMP internet PHOTOS???

Buttercup · Monkey Proof is Beautiful yet hideous

That's a shame. I can't believe that this woman would so blindly believe a computer tech saying that her husband is cheating. I wonder if this was her only reason for confronting him or if there were previous problems in the marriage regarding infidelity? And if not, why oh why would she just accept what a computer tech told her and use that info to ambush her husband?

As for the tech, how dare he make such an allegation and then go so far as to say "he was probably calling them while she was at work?"

I feel sorry for the husband.

foxfyre · Buttercult Founder

KatScratch wrote:

I get a call today. This woman took her PC to ASSHOLE COMPUTER WANNA BE STORE to have them look at it becase when she was cleaning up her temps she noticed some unusual pictures. When she called and spoke with the owner of ACWBS they told her they have seen a lot of this lately and unfortunately it probabley means your husband is "playing the field" on the internet. He told her we can look at it and tell where he's been and when and even burn the "evidence" on a CD for you. Stupidly, she take the PC there and 25 minutes later the alledged "tech" tells her Yep! he's guilty and here's the proof and hands her a CD. He said the amount of images in the temp internet folder means he was cruising these sites quite a bit and some of the email from these sites confirms his interest in the sites!

Stupid woman takes the CD and the laptop and heads home to confront husband of 15 years. Upon confronting him he ends up taking the laptop, breaks it in 2, takes it outside into the driveway, pours gas on it and lights it on fire!! Woman says what, feeling guilty? Man kicks flaming laptop down driveway and says NO, that's the image of our 15 years of love and devotion going up in smoke...man gets in car and leaves.....

Stupid woman calls me today and I explain the alledged "evidence" to her. Spyware, adware, spam, certain viruses....hell even some of the sites she visits to download music have this "questionable" information adds on them! Pop-ups (also caused by adware/spyware) can cause this "frequencey" the alledged tech referred to! Stupid woman is now crying....she ruined a perfectly good marriage over some asshole who calls himself a computer tech!!!! DUMBASS!!!!!

(rant off...for now)

-- Edited by KatScratch at 12:06, 2006-11-15

You kind of have to wonder about such an extreme reaction on his part though. Breaks it in two? Sets it on fire? Whoaaa.....

Buttercup · Monkey Proof is Beautiful yet hideous

That's one of the reasons I was wondering whether or not this was the first time that infidelity has been an issue.

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

She said she has always had an open and trusting marriage, but you hear things on the news and the "tech" told her how common it was.....It's a sad thought that these assholes are in business locally to me!!! If I were the husband, I would go to the store and kick that fuckers ass!

If Econ ever came to me with such lame accusations based on one asswhipe's personal conclusion, I would do far more than break the laptop in two and set it on fire!!!!! Personally, I respect the analogy he made for her....she's willing to crash and burn 15 years over that lame ass shit?????!!!! I feel for the husband and wonder who else this asswhipe wanna-be tech has crashed and burned with his shit? I swear, they will let any fuckhead call themselves a tech these days!!!!! This guy is there for the ol'mighty dollar and nothing more!

If your doctor tells you that you have cancer....do you get a second opinion before you freak out?

-- Edited by KatScratch at 13:38, 2006-11-15

Plush · Make believe Slutty Zombie/Official TOP Drama Queen

KatScratch wrote:

If your doctor tells you that you have cancer....do you get a second opinion before you freak out?

-- Edited by KatScratch at 13:38, 2006-11-15

Yes, thank goodness.

Bread Styx · Bad Bread!!

WOW..her reaction is indictive of something that was stewing for some time.

Oh, and thanks E-man.....

texaschickeee · Seductively Sassy

yes he over reacted, but in the same token, how funkin insulting.

You take a total strangers "thought" on the subject, come and accuse me.....of something of that nature, well...hell thats pretty fucking insulting and disrespectful.

The fact that she took a techs word, with out any other evidence or proof- that says to me tht she doenst have a "open and trusting" marriage.

the mans reaction- over the top, true but hell- 15 years.....WTF

the techs reaction when she called back, and for him to say no,. im not a counselor AFTER what he just did.......I would be talking to a stupidvisor and making formal compliants and notes.

she is dumb, ACWBS is a no good, bottom of the pond scum company and both the wife and the husband need to cool off, talk it out and get to why she would jump so high, so fast....over nothin.

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

texaschickeee wrote:

the techs reaction when she called back, and for him to say no,. im not a counselor AFTER what he just did.......I would be talking to a stupidvisor and making formal compliants and notes.

The tech in question is also the owner of the crappy business.....He's an asshole!

I know the couple to some degree and I never in a million years would have seen her acting this way..... Her hubby, my gutt tells me he is innocent of the "crimes" he's being accused of. They actually have had a pretty good relationship from what I have seen, I never picked up on any falseness or ill intensions before.....

Hubby over-react....maybe, but then again I'd be pissed as hell to be accused in such a fashion!

Plush · Make believe Slutty Zombie/Official TOP Drama Queen

Bitch is gettin what she deserves. She didnt catch him with his dick in anyone so she had no right.

Bread Styx · Bad Bread!!

I wouldnt say she is getting what she deserved....this seems like it was going to happen anyway. The alleged porn addiction just took their dysfunctional marriage to the next level.

She over-reacted. He was sick of her and is probably thanking that tech for making her think what he did.......now he can wipe his hands clean (needs to with all that porn -HA) and when he files for divorce, the ball will be in his court due to her violent reaction. Destruction of property, starting fires, assault.....she is screwed.

KatScratch · Bad kitty....in the best possible way

I don't think he wanted this at all and he is the one who broke, burned and kicked the laptop down the driveway.....

I think this is a case of stupid woman syndrome. Women sit at work listening to all the "bad husband bashing" and if they chirp in and say how good their marriage really is, the other women will laugh at her and tell her she is blind because all men are assholes. I've seen this behavior a million times (and personally hate it). I am sure she has sat there and listened to all the bullshit day in and day out and then when she saw something on her PC, she jumped to conclusions. The asshole tech didn't help matters any with his total disreguard for personal emotional reactions. His only concern was the $$$$$. I think wifey over reacted and let stupid suggestions cloud her better judgement (sheep mentality....go with the flow they must be right). She is getting what she asked for indeed....chaos!

BTW, She called me back....again....I recommended she talk to her priest, he could probabley give her counsel on this and maybe even get her husband to attend a session???? Who knows, maybe he will forgive her once he cools down and sees the big picture and reflects on the past 15 years?

texaschickeee · Seductively Sassy

KatScratch wrote:

I don't think he wanted this at all and he is the one who broke, burned and kicked the laptop down the driveway.....

I think this is a case of stupid woman syndrome. Women sit at work listening to all the "bad husband bashing" and if they chirp in and say how good their marriage really is, the other women will laugh at her and tell her she is blind because all men are assholes. I've seen this behavior a million times (and personally hate it). I

yet again Kat we agree. If they are so bad...why do they keep them in the house and all...

IF theres no foundation.....you ahve no relationship. A relationship is alot more then sex. sex is ONE PART of a billion parts of a relationship. if you cant get along in the kitchen, the bed room isnt going to keep you there long.

Also- if people toss insults, unfounded accusations and the like at others, like I said before-

the relationship was in trouble long before now. I can stand the bashing- STFU and leave

(I stay to myself at work for a reason. back stabing and cut throat shit is NOT my cup of tea, and I keep it very very basic. I know the people I work with.

Like I keep tellin my coworker in my office who LVOES the gossip drama shit-

they do it with you, they are doing the same shit to you behind your back

sory to say, she doesnt get that part-yet.

Bread Styx · Bad Bread!!

KatScratch wrote:

I don't think he wanted this at all and he is the one who broke, burned and kicked the laptop down the driveway.....

I think this is a case of stupid woman syndrome. Women sit at work listening to all the "bad husband bashing" and if they chirp in and say how good their marriage really is, the other women will laugh at her and tell her she is blind because all men are assholes. I've seen this behavior a million times (and personally hate it). I am sure she has sat there and listened to all the bullshit day in and day out and then when she saw something on her PC, she jumped to conclusions. The asshole tech didn't help matters any with his total disreguard for personal emotional reactions. His only concern was the $$$$$. I think wifey over reacted and let stupid suggestions cloud her better judgement (sheep mentality....go with the flow they must be right). She is getting what she asked for indeed....chaos!

BTW, She called me back....again....I recommended she talk to her priest, he could probabley give her counsel on this and maybe even get her husband to attend a session???? Who knows, maybe he will forgive her once he cools down and sees the big picture and reflects on the past 15 years?

Big oops on my part...I thought SHE did all the computer destruction. That is what i get for reading too fast and not wearing my glasses!

I agree with you about the husband -bashing bit. I avoid people who do that; I dont have time for that. The most husband bashing my friends and I do is complaining about socks on the floor.

Perhaps he reacted that way because he was at a boiling point we dont know about.

That was a thoughtful recommendation you made. Let us know if you find out what happens.

Marionn · Fresh Meat

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-- Edited by Marionn on Sunday 13th of September 2020 05:54:55 AM